Say you broke up w/ ur ex simply b/c he lied to u and said he was divorced, but he's actually still married and also the fact that he decide to work things out w/ his wife cuz he's a christian.After the break up, you tell him to leave you alone and no contact whatsoever, but he's texting ur phone a month later when you dont want him to. I am in a situation where he's still trying to have his cake and eat it too behind his wife back, which is wrong b/c I found out that he's still married and he's supposed to be working things out w/ his wife. Some texts were saying " you looked nice..do u miss me", "what time you get off", "u must wanna see me" and so on. Do u guys think this is a sign of him trying to cheat again or play games?
Also, another problem is that his sister says that the text was not a sign of trying to et back w/ me, telling the wife is childish and stupid, nd that it's basically trying to start **** and break up a marriage, so what do u guys think about those statements? Anyways, what would you guys do if ur married ex was still texting you when u dont want him to?Change your phone number, he's a jerk to you and to his wife. He's not respecting either one of you. Is this stalking?Don't answer him at all. Ignore him. ur welcome and i hope it does help.. remember that they aren't the ones going through it so you handle it the way you handle it... g/l Report Abuse
block his number or i'd just call his wife if i really didn't want nothing to do with the poor soul..
and don't let others think for you..if you feel you need to talk to the wife then talk to her.. don't live with could'ves,wouldv'es, or should'ves
and yes he is tryin to get'sum..Kris said it pretty good. I had the same thing happen to me. I did not respond to any of the e-mails or Phone calls and eventually I stopped hearing from her. They will get the hint sometime.Tell him once politely to stop then let it alone, but keep a record/copy of the messages.
if he still doesnt stop after a week let him know that you will forward them to his wife and her lawyer.
ignore him - move on.Call him and tell him to stop contacting you. And it is becoming harassing. AND hang up.
Block his number from calling you,
And don't communicate with his family.
And if he tries again, or comes over just call the police.
Completely ignore him and never write/call him back. He'll get the hint. Some people are immature and can't read between the lines. I agree with your sister. The ex is just mad that you made a stand and have told him you don't want him. He's trying to soothe his ego.
You want him out of your life, so don't go back into his and stir up trouble with his wife. She may already be well aware. If she's not, then you will be seen as the bad person, not him.
I would ignore the texts and not respond to them. You found out he was still married and told him not to contact you. He's not abiding by that. If he continues, tell him you will file harassment and stalking charges against him. Change your number if you need to.
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