See 7 years and hes never ever done anything to make me think he would cheat cause he really wouldn't but he did by talking to different women on the internet and one in particular over the phone who he said he just liked as a friend. Now I already had issues about myself before all of this happened but now 6 months later and I still don't trust him and keep playing everything over and over in my mind. AHHHH how do I just accept it and try to move on without always throwing it in his face.?!Cyber sex is NOT sex...and only if he agreed not to chat would it be considered 'cheating'. You need to sit down together and map out the rules to your relationship, if in fact you still have one. People tend to assume that their significant other has the exact same ideas about dating that they do; usually, nothing could be further from the truth!how is that considered cheating. i dont think that it is a problem he might be telling the truth in fact that probably is the case. give that guy a break.One way to get over this is to ask him why he felt the need for any other female friends? Then ask him is there anything he is not getting from you? Does he need something from you that he feels might be lacking in your relationship? That just might be why he roamed. Or maybe he is just an idiot. He may or may not tell you but at least try to talk it out, perhaps use a counselor even. good luckTalk to him about. If you still aren't 'over it' - that means you haven't been satisfied.
Also... I had this boyfriend who... was a basic idiot. I was talking to him on the phone once ...suggestively... and he said "Oh, I'm spent on e-wh***s".
It didn't bother me much. But a week later, her broke up with me.
I don't really know and wish I had talked to him... but then maybe the fact that it didn't bother me is why I was dumped and why I am still single. I don't think it's something you should have to get over or just deal with. The truth is he is shopping around. Let him know that you do trust him (even though it's hard) and this behavior really hurts you. Ask him how he would feel if you were doing the same thing to him. His "friendship" should not be more important than your feelings innocent or not. Ask him to stop.Why don't YOU get into a "net' relationship? Text, type, and then talk on the phone with your new 'friend". See how he handles it... Not so well, I would guess. I have a "friend" I've met online, and let me tell you, It's HOT....to say the least. But that's just me,...lucky me..Without trust there is no relationship,and it sounds as if your boyfriend is not trust worthy.If he feels the need to have relationships with women on the internet and you call that not cheating well then you already are a better woman than I .Because in my book that is dishonoring your relationship.#If you have any other info about this subject , Please add it free.# |
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inserito da smith il 14 March 2010
